Purchasing Y/your BDSM Lifestyle Items

After 2 day's of talking and taking pictures of the items we are promoting for The BDSM Lifestyle store we are very happy to Announce that the Owner of Lady C Leather have given her permission to us to promo her items from her store.

Leather Collars

All the Leather items are handcrafted by Lady C her self and we are talking about quality here.. And what Y/you see is what Y/you pay for and it is every penny,dollar worth it!

Prices starting from $20,00 up to Hundreds $ depending on what Y/you are looking for and wished to purchasing but again this is quality and worth it!

Leather Ballgags

If Y/you see a item that Y/you are interested in W/we asking Y/you to contact us through our Facebook page and inbox Y/you questions or Y/you can always e-mail us at mastergslaven@gmail.com and we will get back to Y/you ASAP!

Leather Collars

Leather Bracelets with names

Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress/submissive/princess/sexy ass and much more

Leather & Suede Floggers Y/you can never have enough.

For Residents in Las Vegas, Nevada

When stopping by in the Store tell them that Master Grimm & slave nalani has send Y/you over from our Facebook page till will give Y/you a % off on Y/you purchasing.

For outside Las Vegas, Nevada count's the same Y/you will get a 4 off on Y/you purchasing and Y/you items can be shipped at Y/you also using our names Master Grimm & slave nalani.

For outside the USA International count's also the same Y/you will get a % off on Y/your purchasing and it will be shipped to Y/you but of course the delivery will take some time depends where to ship at and also using our names Master Grimm & slave.

Wooden & Leather Paddle's

For more information please contact U/us on

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Master-Grimm-slave-Nalani-BDSM-Lifestyle/584974204869464?ref=hl

Or at

mastergslaven@gmail.com

We have a Official BDSM Lifestyle store onto our page

With this Blog W/we are happy to Announce that W/we having a official BDSM Lifestyle Store onto our Facebook page Master Grimm & slave nalani BDSM Lifestyle..
This store is locate in Las Vegas, Nevada and this is a Store that make their product's by them self and everything is 100% Leather.. hand made Flogger, Leather Clothing, Leather Collars and even Custom made Corset's..

The Store have so much more to offer for Y/you playtime and for Y/your daily lifestyle it doesn't matter if Y/you are just starting in the BDSM Lifestyle or if Y/you are for years in it there is every time something new to find in this store to keep Y/your Lifestyle spicy..

After talking with the Co-Owner of the store W/we Master Grimm & slave nalani have come to a agreement that W/we promote every week their Product's and Items.. no worries if Y/you are not living in Las Vegas,Nevada they will ship it to Y/you as well.. And even outside the United State of America.
If Y/you are interested in a Product/Item all Y/you need to do is contact U/us explain what Y/you would like so W/we can show Y/you the item Y/you are looking for.. and if Y/you step into the store all Y/you have to do is tell them Master Grimm & slave nalani has informed Y/you to visit..
We talking about Quality products here it is Y/your $ Worth it every penny if Y/you asking U/us!!

W/we will be showing every week a new product and it is up to Y/you what Y/you wish is and just U/us know exactly so W/we can help Y/you to keep Y/your Lifestyle spice!!
Y/you can contact U/us be e-mail mastergrimmslaven@gmail.com or through our personal Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/pages/Master-Grimm-slave-Nalani-BDSM-Lifestyle/584974204869464 and inbox U/us Y/your question or reguest and W/we will make this happen for Y/you.

Master Grimm & slave nalani

Master/slave Contract

Entering into a Master/slave Contract

In BDSM, a slave is one that submits fully and unconditionally to their Master. If there are limits set on Master’s authority, then this is not a true Master/slave relationship and the parties should be referred to as Dominant and submissive. However, some couples still like to call themselves “Master” or “Mistress” and “slave” whilst retaining some limits.

What’s involved

When a Master takes on a slave in BDSM, the parties typically enter into some form of contract or agreement. Usually Master prepares the documentation and presents it to slave for signing.Most times the slave will have the opportunity to negotiate and talk over the terms, but in some situations they are not even given the chance to read the contents. Increasingly, Masters have been known for asking the slave to prepare the document from scratch.There are essentially three types of Master/slave BDSM contracts. The first represents the true realms of such a relationship: a total power exchange, the second is for those who wish to call themselves “slave” but yet retain certain rights (in essence being a submissive rather than a slave). Persons who fall into the latter category have been criticized for undermining core principles of BDSM. The third kind is a scene play contract as opposed to a lifestyle.

Are you ready for a Master/slave relationship?

There are fundamental elements of a Master/slave relationship which also need to be imbued into the terms of the contract. These include honesty, devotion, trust, communication and the ever important desire to own or be owned. If you don’t have these elements in your relationship, there is no point entering into a contract to create them. You should only be signing on the dotted line if you already have these qualities present.Being able to communicate in a non-judgmental way is incredibly important. The slave needs to be able to feel comfortable enough to raise any queries or concerns with Master. This is not only important for negotiating the contract in the beginning, but it’s also essential for helping the relationship grow. In many cases, the contract is a living document, which is altered with the development of the relationship. Verbal communication is the most common form, but slaves may also be made to disclose their deepest inner thoughts and desires through a journal, private website or emails to Master. Master will also need to communicate his desires and restrict unwanted behavior in the slave. If you don’t have the ability to do this yet, maybe hold off or just sign a short term Master/slave contract with the intention of renegotiating along the way.The lack of honesty and trust is a deal breaker for many Masters and slaves. If you don’t have this from the outset, signing a contract is unlikely to improve your relationship. This is especially because BDSM contracts solely stand on the party’s moral authority, as opposed to any legal enforceability.Negotiating and drawing up a Master/slave contract can bring you closer together through the essential negotiation process. It can also bring you closer to your goals as you will need to clearly express them with any contract you write. If you are devoted to what BDSM stands for and to one another, there is no reason why you shouldn’t formalize your commitment with a signed contract. Just make it relevant to your situation, needs and wants, rather than following what others are doing.

Submission to a Master/Mistress

What do you mean when you offer to serve?
What do you mean when you offer to be of service?
What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?

Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?
Do you envision some Amazon Goddess sporting a huge strap-on taking you anally?
Do you envision yourself prancing around in some French Maid Costume and being asked to provide oral service to a Master/Mistress?
Do you envision some man/woman squatting over your helplessly bound body “forcing” you to serve Him/Her orally?
Do you envision being put over His/Her knee and spanked like a naughty little boy/girl?

Yes, nice visions aren’t they? However, not one of those visions is the definition of “serve”, “service” or “servitude”. Oh, I’m sure you consider them to be just that, but if you check your dictionaries you won’t find any mention of French Maid Costumes or bondage or strap-ons or oral sex or any other fetish you may enjoy.
In fact you won’t find any mention of fetishes at all in the definitions.

Serve is defined as:
1. to work for, be a servant;
2. to act in a specific capacity;
3. to place food before, wait on;
4. to be of assistance to.

Service is defined as:
1. the occupation or duties of a servant;
2. the act or means of serving;
3. duties performed as an occupation.

Servitude is defined as:
Servitude is one's service and Obedience to another

Submission to a Master/Mistress slavery.

When you offer to serve a FemDom, what you are offering (or should be offering) is the surrender of your control. You should know Him/Her well enough to trust Him/Her with your life. When you offer your servitude to Him/Her, you are telling Him/Her that you trust His/Her judgment, you trust Him/Her to keep you safe from harm, you trust Him/Her to know what is best for both of you, you trust Him/Her decisions and desire to follow His/Her orders and obey Him/Her in all things. Your offer of service is your ability to let go of your ego and your free will (control) and allow Him/Her to control you.
Serving is, first and foremost, the act of making His/Her life easier. It is compliance with all His/Her desires, wishes, and orders. Yes, BDSM and fetish play more than likely will be included as part of the relationship. But overall, the D/s aspect of the relationship will be where you have turned your control over to Him/Her and do as He/She says.
Everyday life will be part of this, for most people do have to work, bills do have to be paid, people need to see doctors occasionally, and dentists. Then there are family get together, family emergencies, social gatherings with vanilla friends and also with D/s friends. For the most part, life will seem pretty vanilla, but there will be one difference. IF you have truly submitted, then your actions will be measured by how your Master/Mistress would feel about it. Your decisions will be based upon what you are allowed or not allowed to decide without His/Her permission. You will treat others with respect. You will consider that your actions would reflect back upon your Master/Mistress and therefore act in a manner that would make Him/Her proud of you. There may be other constant reminders: He/She may insist you wear panties under your clothes at work. But you will always remember that you have submitted to Him/Her and will honor that commitment.

How can you serve your Master/Mistress – what are the ways?

Here are some suggestions:

Make sure His/Her home is clean and neat.
Make sure His/Her clothes are clean and neat.
Prepare His/Her favorite foods for.
Prepare His/Her bath.
Rub His/Her feet after He/She comes in from working all day.
Offer Him/Her a massage if His/Her day was very stressful.
Offer to do His/Her manicure and pedicure.
Have His/Her favorite music playing or find His/Her favorite show or movie on TV.
Surprise Him/Her with gift's.
Serve Him/Her coffee as soon as He.She gets up in the morning.
Ask what clothing He/She wants laid out for Him/Her.
These are just a few of the ways you can serve Him/Her once you have been trained in what He/She wants and likes. Don’t be afraid to use your imagination to surprise Him/Her (provided of course that He/She has no problem with you doing this occasionally).
A happy, contented, pleased, relaxed Master/Mistress is a Master/Mistress who will then have no problem torturing you, using you, or even indulging you with a fetish or two that are your favorites…………just to show you how much He/She really appreciates your service and submission to Him/Her.

So, what are you offering?

1) Personal service only (oral, massage, bathing)?
2) Play sessions only (spankings, face-sitting, strap-on, whippings, flogging) play-time?
3) Domestic service only (household chores, errands)?
4) OR are you offering Him/Her the whole package?
These are the things you need to be clear about in your own mind first and foremost before approaching a Master/Mistress and offering to “serve” Him/Her.

And remember your gift is your submission, this is a precious gift and needs to be taken care of by the right Dom/Domme.

Hot Wax Play

BDSM Techniques - Hot Wax Play

Hot Wax Safety for BDSM Scenes

Hot Wax Play in BDSM Scenes can be highly erotic and can be highly dangerous. It's no fun at all to have a burning pool of wax collect in your most intimate parts, or to try to escape from rope bondage in a room filled with smoke and burning curtains, all because your Top hasn't learned the basic safety requirements of Hot Wax Play. As with any BDSM exploration, safety comes first - ALWAYS.
Preparing for Play
• A thin film of mineral oil or even baby oil on any skin to be waxed makes removal much easier and can be a fun erotic piece of the scene in itself
• Spread an old sheet or tarp over the play area, to protect your carpet or furniture
• Bring a flat hard surface near to the play area to hold your candles, wax pots and other toys securely - this helps avoid spills (unwanted spills) and prevents accidents, like tipped-over candles, etc.
• Put a romantic or edgy CD on continuous loop, so that you don't have to stop the scene to put in another piece of music. Once you are fully engaged with your partner in the erotic wax play scene, stopping abruptly can cause major 'sub drop'! (Sub drop is also known as submissive drop and can be extremely upsetting, emotionally)
• Gather all your scene stuff before beginning play - wet washcloths or towels for instant cooling of wax, ice in a bowl, a mini-fire extinguisher you can purchase from any auto parts store, and anything else you can think of to keep your submissive and your home safe.

Variations of Wax Play
Dripping, Pouring, Ladling, Painting, Feathering are all common ways to apply the hot wax to the bare skin. Dripping is self-explanatory. Pouring can either be from a container of heated wax or from the wax candle itself. Ladling is exquisite; as long as you have made sure the temperature of the wax is low enough not to cause burns or intense discomfort. Painting delicious wax graffiti on your lover is amazingly erotic! From paintbrushes to feathers, Q-tips to eye droppers, try painting your name or simple scrolls and designs.

SAFETY NOTE: We recommend wax no hotter than 120-125 degrees Fahrenheit (49-51 Celsius), to avoid burns, heat rash and even blistering!

Specific Safety During Wax Play Scenes
Wax Temperature: It bears repeating, high temperature wax burns! Try a soy wax at a low temperature melting point, or the cheapest cheap candles from the dollar store. Additives are put into candle wax to harden them, or to add scent and color. Cheap soft white candles tend to be the lowest melt temperature wax, because of the lack of additives, such as stearic acid, but other issues may also arise. Consider the submissive's known allergies to scent and oils in scented candles. my Master also buy his candles at a grocery store and most of the time the cheap white one's and they are perfect for use and not expensive at all.. for a $2.00 you have a few candles.

Pooling Hot Wax and Your Intimate Crevices:
A drop or two of hot wax on a submissive's back is totally different than a molten pool of wax gushing down the cleft of their bottom and gathering into a painful, blistered pool on their anus.!

Wax and Hair Make for Pain Play You Might Not Have Planned:
Body hair can be somewhat protected from wax, and cleanup made easier, by coating the hairs with baby oil or mineral oil before wax play begins. Of course, if pain play is part of your scene, you can 'pull' the wax off with a flea and tick comb (the kind with very fine, very small teeth); scrape it off with a knife blade or even better, an old credit card. Some seasoned hot wax players flog the wax off or cane it off, as part of their scene! Personally, my Master always pull it off with his hands by rubbing my back or breasts.

Shouting "FIRE" in The Middle of Your Scene is NOT Erotic!:
As always, think 'safety'. Keep burning candles and flames away from any flammable materials. Never leave any flame unattended, not even when you finish the hot wax play scene and are lying together lost in erotic bliss!
So, think through your own wax play scene, discuss it between partners, plan for every foreseeable event in your hot wax play scene, and most importantly - ENJOY the warm, sensuous hot wax adventure. Stay safe and play smart, and you can enjoy many erotic adventures with your partner!
Safe,Sane and Consensualat all times!

submissive VS. slave

BDSM Submissive VS. Slave: Is There a Difference?

What Makes Someone a Submissive and Not a Slave?

In a lot of circles, the terms submissive and slave are used interchangeably. In others, submissive is designated as a different level of submission than a slave is. The basic distinction made in most circles is that a slave is property and a submissive is not. The submissive chooses when they submit and to whom them submit, while a slave submits completely at all times, no matter who they are submitting to.
In some circles, this is how things work. In others, there is more distinction. A submissive seeks out only casual contact. A slave seeks out ownership. To be owned, to give themselves fully to another person. To give oneself to another, allowing them to make all decisions. They have no freedoms, they have no rights. They are nothing more than a piece of property to be used at their Master or Mistress' whim.
Submissives retain their rights and freedoms. They have a say in their submission. Owned or seeking, a submissive retains their rights in the relationships they enter into. They still make their own decisions, freely and openly. They set their own limits and are only owned until they choose not to be. Some who read this will say, "but that isn't submitting." It's not hard to think this because in a lot of ways, it can be viewed that way, however, dominance and submission isn't based on rights and freedoms. The level of dominance or submission comes from other aspects of the relationship, after limits are discussed.
Either way, submissives and slaves are individuals. Each and every individual is different. Each relationship is different and how we conduct ourselves in each relationship is different. The determination of submission versus slavery is in the conduct of the relationship, For instance, one can submit sexually, while outside of the bedroom they are an equal partner in the relationship. One can submit when it comes to household chores, yet in other areas of life, they are an equal with their partner. Submission can go even further as well. If a submissive chooses to live within a relationship where the dominant controls every aspect of their life, from what they wear, to what they do during the day and how they are to do it, then it crosses from submission into slavery.
Much like in the days of southern slavery, every aspect of the submissive's life is controlled. However, unlike southern slaves, the submissive chose this lifestyle, they chose to give themselves to another. They also can choose to no longer be a slave by either ending the relationship or redefining it with their partner. A slave in the BDSM lifestyle lives in a total power exchange relationship with their Master or Mistress by their choice and their willingness to give themselves to another. Sometimes it will be said that a slave's only escape is death of their partner, but this is not really the case in a proper relationship, no matter whether it is Master and Slave or Master and Submissive.
Like any other relationship, every definition is another label given by society. It's up to the couple to define their label to suit their needs.